How to Maximize Sex Desire (And Win in Life)


Popular culture is saturated with sex.

Thanks to the booty shorts and yoga pants explosion, voluptuous asses are in abundance around the world.

The internet is rich in erection-inducing optics (on Facebook, Instagram, and other ‘gentleman’s websites’).

But despite the steady bombardment of erotic content, most men have a chronically low sex drive and performance anxiety.

They turn to Viagra, Cialis, and booze to alleviate symptoms of erectile dysfunction, temporarily masking their impotence just long enough to penetrate and perform without embarrassing themselves.

In the break room at work one day, I saw a Viagra commercial. “150 million men suffer from erectile disfunction, increasingly including men under age 40”, they said.

Just a short while later, I was one of them.

I had a date with a luscious southern blonde, and after we moved to her bedroom and I removed all her clothes, I found myself unable to get hard.

“Sorry, I’m exhausted,” I said.

“It’s okay,” she whispered with a smile on her face — the type of smile a woman makes for a little boy who made a boo-boo.

I was fucked, and only I was to blame.

The Succubus Demon That Devours Many Souls

AKA Porn.

There’s no need for guilt. You are genetically predisposed to be turned on by porn.

I observed many a night as an eastern European girl got plowed by a well-endowed black man equipped like a wild stallion.

Porn offers a limitless supply of such scenes with the most seductive females on earth. It can be quite entertaining to watch.

This doesn’t change the fact that porn turns you into a feeble shell of a man with chronically low dopamine and testosterone levels.

The Truth Can Be a Painful Pill to Swallow

Like a meth fiend, you will develop a tolerance to the dopamine high from your dirty little habit and will need ever more perverse scenes to satisfy your cravings.

One Reddit thread labeled A GENUINE WARNING FROM A LOST SOUL WITH GOOD INTENTIONS reads as follows.

“I masturbated just about every day for the next 6 years, managing to keep my life together outwardly before I found the dreaded combination at 18: Amphetamines, edibles, and reprehensible porn viewing.”

“In three years I went from “I can’t watch gay porn that’s gross I don’t like dicks” to exhibiting submissive big dick worship behavior until I climax.

“You can laugh and say it’ll never happen to you and that you’re more normal than me, but I cannot stress to you enough how normal I was before this whole mess began. Perfect childhood, loving parents, and many positive role models in my life.”

While you may not suffer the same agonizing fate as the guy above, you will undoubtedly waste (and ejaculate) your precious time and energy away.

The Most Potent Vitality Serum on Earth is Free

It’s not a magic potion or a pill.

It’s your libido.

Your sex drive is the most potent energy source in the history of mankind.

You could leverage this energy to become legendary.

You could be building a business, making gains in the gym, and meeting REAL women.

Instead, you trade your life-force and virility for a few seconds of idiotic pleasure.

Porn Extinguishes the Fire in Your Belly (And Mutes Your Killer Instinct)

Porn is like kryptonite for your masculinity and self-worth.

Here’s why.

Healthy dopamine levels are essential for winning in life and achieving mastery in any craft. A few of the benefits of optimal dopamine are:

  • Motivation
  • Memory and Learning
  • Social Extroversion
  • Creativity
  • Sex Drive
  • Confidence

But guess what?

Any time you blow your load to porn, you crash your dopamine.

This is why you become weak, feckless, and unmotivated after masturbating to porn.

Stop watching porn immediately.

The porn addict’s mind is submerged in fabrications that have no relation to real-life scenarios. He compares his daily grind to the exaggerations of internet posers, and his dopamine receptors are fried from clicking through one scene after another, and another.

This is not your natural state.

You were born with the killer instinct to succeed and find sexually available women to connect and mate with.

This drive might be underdeveloped or even dormant in you, but it is there.

Quitting porn is the crucial first step in harnessing your sex energy to become an uber-confident and superior man.

A Taste of Death: The Masturbator’s Curse

“Pleasure from the senses seems like nectar at first, but is bitter as poison in the end.” — The Bhagavad Gita

The French coined the phrase ‘La Petit Mort’ or ‘the little death.’ This refers to the loss or weakening of consciousness that occurs after orgasm.

Little death from masturbation is a momentum slaughterer that should be avoided at all costs.

Never masturbate, ever again.

Wanking is an unproductive habit that will keep you wishing and fantasizing for the rest of your life.

NoFap (abstinence from porn and masturbation) will give you momentum, confidence, and grit; these are your most valuable commodities if you want to achieve greatness in life.

The reason is simple.

Your mind and body are constantly lying to you. They are trying to keep you safe and stagnant, which is why you are a slave to fear and instant gratification.

Purposely subject yourself to delayed gratification, discomfort, failure, and rejection, and you will begin to conquer your homeostasis (the outdated biological system designed to keep you safe from lions and tigers and bears).

Refraining from masturbation, talking to women you think are out of your league, and making sales pitches are great places to start.

For more about breaking homeostasis and reaching your full potential, read Ludvig Sunstrom’s awesome book, BOOH.

Unleash Your Inner Alpha By Mastering Sexual Transmutation

To quote Napoleon Hill from the legendary book Think and Grow Rich,

“Sex transmutation is simple and easily explained. It means the switching of the mind from thoughts of physical expression, to thoughts of some other nature.”

“When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage, will-power, persistence, and creative ability unknown to them at other times.”

Once you give up the debased practices of porn and masturbation, you will begin to transmute sex energy into an intense inner drive to accomplish your goals.

You might be wondering how the hell to transmute sexual energy.

Here’s a start.

Stop daydreaming about fucking girls.

Instead, focus on channeling the energy so you’ll dare to talk to and escalate with attractive women.

When sexual tension starts to build in your crotch and base of your spine, squeeze your PC muscle (the same muscle you use to cut urine flow) and try to breathe the energy upward towards your chest.

Focus on moving the energy from your nuts to your heart. The more you can master moving the energy to your heart without fantasizing, the more effectively you will transmute the energy.

This blog post breaks sex transmutation down with precision.

Boost Your Sexual Voltage by Taking Aphrodisiacs

It’s a shame more men don’t take adaptogenic herbs and aphrodisiacs to increase and replenish sex drive.

Here are a few of my favorites.

  • Maca — This Andean herb is loaded with vitamins, amino acids, and nutrients. It was considered sacred in Incan culture and is commonly referred to as Peruvian ginseng due to its libido-enhancing effects. You can buy a super potent maca extract at Lively Mood.
  • Ginseng — This plant has powerful antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties. It will also make a person horny AF. I recommend Prince of Peace’s ultra-enhanced red Panax ginseng shots.
  • Phenibut — This aphrodisiac is guaranteed to loosen you up and get you in the mood. It will give you tons of confidence and charisma without the intoxicating effect of other forms of liquid courage. Nootropics Depot is my go-to source for premium Phenibut.

Best practices for the supplements: 

Adaptogens change the way your body functions (instead of band-aiding symptoms like pharmaceuticals). Give the maca and ginseng a couple of weeks to kick your libido into overdrive. If you are an otherwise healthy individual, you will feel a dramatic rise in sexual desire when they begin to take effect.

Phenibut is probably the best compound available in terms of mood elevation and increasing feelings of well-being. It will make just about everything more enjoyable, including sex (also music, exercise, writing, reading, and socializing). This gem should be reserved for special occasions (or a maximum of two days per week).

The Truth Shall Set You Free (And Transform You Into a Sex Machine)

You were led to believe sex desire is purely physical and has only one benefit: release through orgasm.

But that is bullshit.

They sold you this version of sex to make you docile. The psychologists who introduced sex into marketing knew the power of sex energy, so they decided to take it away from you and use it against you.

They conveniently left out that properly harnessed sex energy was an elixir for motivation, creativity, masculinity, and success.

When you learn to leverage sexual energy, you supercharge your life.

Nicola Tesla once said, “if you wish to understand the universe, think of energy, frequency, and vibration.”

When you transmute your sex energy, everything is done at an exponentially higher voltage.

Your sexual ferocity will increase tenfold.

You will enter flow state (hyperfocus) quickly and more often, which is how masterpieces get crafted.

You will become a more intense and dominant man in the bedroom and in life.

Your voice will get deeper.

You will have more confidence to talk to attractive girls.

You will thank yourself for finding this new source of vital energy and enriching your experience of life.

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